Rediscovering Yourself: The Importance of Embracing Passion and Prioritising Self-Time

In today’s fast-paced world, it’s easy to get caught up in the constant hustle and bustle of everyday life. We often find ourselves running in a never-ending rat race, striving for success, chasing after external validation, and neglecting our inner desires. However, amidst the chaos, it is crucial to pause, take a step back, and reconnect with ourselves. This blog explores the significance of spending time with oneself, pursuing our passions, and how we can break free from the monotonous routine to live a more fulfilling life.

1. The Value of Solitude:In our interconnected world, solitude is often misunderstood or undervalued. Yet, spending time alone allows us to reflect, introspect, and recharge our minds. It provides an opportunity to connect with our thoughts, emotions, and aspirations without distractions. Solitude enables us to gain a deeper understanding of ourselves, our values, and what truly brings us joy.
2. Unleashing Your Passions: Passions are like hidden treasures within us, waiting to be discovered. Engaging in activities we love not only brings us immense pleasure but also enhances our overall well-being. When we immerse ourselves in our passions, time seems to fly, and we experience a sense of flow—a state where creativity flourishes and we are fully present in the moment. By embracing our passions, we ignite the fire within us, leading to a more authentic and fulfilled life.
3. Prioritising Self-Care: Amidst the demands of work, relationships, and societal expectations, self-care often takes a backseat. However, nurturing ourselves is essential for maintaining balance and preventing burnout. Carving out time for self-care activities—whether it’s practicing mindfulness, engaging in hobbies, or simply enjoying a quiet walk in nature—allows us to recharge and replenish our energy. Remember, taking care of oneself is not selfish; it’s an act of self-love and preservation.
4. Escaping the Rat Race: Society often promotes a rat race mentality, where success is measured solely by external achievements. However, true fulfillment comes from aligning our actions with our values and passions, not from competing with others. Breaking free from the rat race involves questioning societal norms, defining our own versions of success, and pursuing paths that resonate with our authentic selves. Embrace the courage to follow your own dreams, not the ones imposed by society.
5. Practical Steps to Embrace Self-Time: a) Schedule dedicated “me time” in your daily routine. It could be as simple as setting aside 15 minutes each day to engage in an activity you love. b) Create a list of activities that bring you joy and make a commitment to pursue them regularly. c) Disconnect from technology and spend time in solitude, allowing your mind to wander and explore. d) Prioritise self-care by incorporating activities such as meditation, exercise, reading, or practicing a creative outlet into your routine. e) Surround yourself with supportive individuals who encourage and inspire you to follow your passions.

Take a walk, discover yourself ❤

In a world that often emphasises external achievements, it is crucial to remember that our personal well-being and fulfilment matter. By spending time with ourselves, embracing our passions, and consciously detaching from the rat race, we can lead more authentic and fulfilling lives. Prioritising self-time not only nurtures our souls but also empowers us to make a positive impact on the world around us. So, let us embark on a journey of self-discovery, unleash our passions, and reclaim our true selves.

Dusting Off the Keyboard: Restarting My Blog Journey!

Hey there, fellow bookworms and curious souls! It’s been a while since my last blog post, but I’m thrilled to announce that I’m back, ready to embark on this wonderful blogging adventure once again. Join me as I dive into the captivating world of books, share snippets of my life, and unleash the whirlwind of random thoughts that inhabit my mind. 

Books have always held a special place in my heart, transporting me to far-off realms, introducing me to fascinating characters, and evoking emotions I never knew existed. From gripping thrillers to heartwarming tales, thought-provoking non-fiction to enchanting fantasy, I’m excited to explore the vast literary landscape and share my discoveries with you all.

But that’s not all! My blog isn’t just limited to book talk. It’s a window into my life, a space where I’ll sprinkle bits and pieces of my own experiences, reflections, and adventures. We’ll laugh together, ponder the mysteries of existence, and perhaps even shed a tear or two.

So, whether you’re a fellow book aficionado, a wanderer seeking inspiration, or simply someone looking for a virtual hangout spot, consider this blog your cozy nook, a place where we can connect and exchange thoughts in this vast digital universe.

Stay tuned for upcoming posts where I’ll be sharing my latest reads, cherished book quotes, musings on life’s peculiarities, and who knows what other surprises await! Together, let’s embark on this blogging journey, ready to ignite our imaginations, foster meaningful connections, and revel in the sheer joy of words.

Remember to hit that subscribe button and join me on this whirlwind adventure through books, life snippets, and all the beautifully chaotic thoughts that wander through my mind. Let’s embrace this restart together and make every word count!

Blogger Recognition Award

I was nominated by Brittany at Perfectly Tolerable. Thank you so much for the appreciation Brittany. This is my first ever bloggers award 🙂 Everyone do check her blog, she is awesome 😊

This is an award given by bloggers to other bloggers as a recognition of their hard work.  I am amazed at how interactive and supportive so many bloggers have been!  When I first started my blog I really only thought my grandma would read it, but there is a whole community of book bloggers who support one another and it’s awesome!

Rules:

• Thank the blogger who nominated you and provide a link to their blog.
• Write a post to show your award.
• Give a brief story of how your blog started.
• Give two pieces of advice to new bloggers.
• Select 15 other bloggers you’d like to give this award to.
• Comment on each blog and let them know you’ve nominated them, providing a link to the post you’ve created. (Please make sure you do this step! Otherwise they won’t know you’ve tagged them.)

1.How I started writing the blog:

From my school days, I used to maintain a diary because I love to write about everyday life, wierd experiences and everything. But saying that, I won’t say that writing a blog was a conscious decision. Few weeks back, I was going through some interesting blog. They were all about daily life and day to day experiences. That’s when I thought that why not start writing a blog, since I can then connect with the global arenas. That’s how my writing started.

2.Advice for fresh bloggers:

This part will be pretty hard for me, because I myself is a newbie! Still few things that I have learned, I can share:

• Don’t think so much and start writing. Because I think that’s where we all lack, that we plan a lot of things and end up doing nothing. Taking the initiative and actually start writing the blog is very important.
• Write whatever you feel like. Remember this is your blog and you can present your blog in your own style. Not because someone else has this style and that, you also have to follow their path, no. Just be expressive and innovative in your own way!!

BLOGGERS I WOULD LIKE TO NOMINATE:

• THE WANDERLUSTCHEF
• WANDERING MEG
• Stuffed Shelves
• betwixt-the-pages
• Reading with Jessica
• A Book. A Thought
• The Book Date
• Book Journey
• Rachel E. Moss
• My Dee Dee’s Diary
• Anna Knight
• Behind These Hazel Eyes
• Second Wind Leisure Perspective
• Pitch Black Poetry
• The Pensive Dreamer

Share your link in the comments if you participate! I would love to see your answers.  Even if you don’t participate, make sure to check out all the awesome blogs! Happy writing 🙂 🙂 🙂

 

Dare to Fly!!

Flying with my imagination, I often wonder about the birds! Amidst all the chaos, they can fly to the peaceful sky. The winds touching their body, the chills running through them. I wonder what it feels like, being a bird and flying away!!!!

Riding into Serenity: A Mesmerizing Bike Trip to Lonavala

There’s something magical about the open road, the wind in your hair, and the freedom that comes with a motorcycle journey. Recently, we embarked on an unforgettable bike trip to Lonavala, and the experience was nothing short of exhilarating. From the smooth roads to the breathtaking sunset, every moment was a testament to the beauty of the journey itself.

Smooth Roads and Scenic Landscapes: The journey to Lonavala was adorned with smooth, well-maintained roads that offered a perfect canvas for our biking adventure. The gentle curves and winding paths provided an ideal setting for riders to embrace the thrill of the open road. Surrounded by lush greenery and scenic landscapes, the route to Lonavala was a visual feast that added an extra layer of joy to the ride.

Lonavala’s Charms: Nestled in the Western Ghats, Lonavala is a picturesque hill station known for its verdant landscapes and pleasant climate. As we rode through the quaint town, the air became cooler, and the aroma of the surrounding hills was intoxicating. Lonavala’s charm lies not only in its natural beauty but also in the warmth of its people and the vibrant local culture.

Chasing the Sunset: One of the highlights of our bike trip was witnessing the breathtaking sunset on our way back home. As we navigated the winding roads, the sun dipped below the horizon, casting a warm glow over the landscape. The hues of orange, pink, and purple painted the sky, creating a canvas of colors that reflected off our helmets and bikes. It was a moment frozen in time, a perfect snapshot of nature’s grandeur.

The Joy of Riding Together: Beyond the scenic beauty, what made the trip truly special was the camaraderie among fellow riders. The shared passion for biking, the laughter, and the occasional pit stops to admire the view created a sense of unity and friendship. Lonavala became not just a destination but a shared memory that will be cherished by all who rode together.

Conclusion: Our bike trip to Lonavala was more than just a journey; it was an exploration of the senses, a celebration of the freedom that comes with the open road. From the smooth ride on well-maintained roads to the awe-inspiring sunset, every moment was a reminder that sometimes, it’s not just about the destination but the journey itself. Lonavala, with its charm and beauty, provided the perfect backdrop for an unforgettable biking adventure that will be etched in our memories for years to come.

Book review Time 📖

The Silent Patient by Alex Michaelides – A Mind-Blowing Thriller

Rating: ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️ (5/5)

I just finished reading “The Silent Patient” by Alex Michaelides, and I am still in awe of this incredible psychological thriller. From start to finish, this book had me hooked, and the last phase was nothing short of mind-blowing. It’s no wonder this book was selected as the Goodreads Choice 2019 winner—it is an absolute gem that is worth every bit of praise it has received.

The story revolves around Alicia Berenson, a renowned painter who seemingly has it all—talent, beauty, and a seemingly perfect life. However, her world is shattered when she is found guilty of murdering her husband and subsequently stops speaking, becoming a silent patient in a psychiatric institution. Enter Theo Faber, a psychotherapist with a deep fascination for Alicia’s case. He is determined to unravel the truth behind her silence and delve into the dark depths of her mind.

The narrative is brilliantly crafted, keeping the reader guessing and second-guessing at every turn. Michaelides’ writing style is both elegant and captivating, effortlessly drawing you into the characters’ lives and their complex emotions. The way he seamlessly weaves together past and present, painting a vivid picture of Alicia’s life before and after the crime, is nothing short of masterful.

The characters in “The Silent Patient” are multifaceted and beautifully developed. Alicia, the enigmatic silent patient, and Theo, the relentless psychotherapist, are two of the most intriguing characters I have encountered in a thriller. Their interactions are charged with tension and suspense, as secrets are slowly revealed, leading to shocking revelations that had me gasping in disbelief.

The pacing of the book is spot-on, steadily building up the tension and leaving you desperate to know the truth. The author skillfully plants breadcrumbs of clues along the way, making you feel like a detective trying to solve the mystery alongside Theo. And just when you think you have it all figured out, the last phase hits you like a tidal wave, leaving you reeling and questioning everything you thought you knew.

“The Silent Patient” is an exceptional psychological thriller that will keep you on the edge of your seat from beginning to end. Alex Michaelides’ debut novel showcases his remarkable talent for crafting a gripping and twisty narrative that will leave you breathless. I highly recommend this book to anyone who enjoys a thrilling and thought-provoking read.

In conclusion, “The Silent Patient” is a true masterpiece that lives up to its hype. Its well-deserved recognition as the Goodreads Choice 2019 winner speaks volumes about its quality. Prepare yourself for a rollercoaster of emotions and a mind-bending finale that will leave you speechless.

Let me know if you have read this book and your thoughts 💭

Till then, keep reading ✌️📚📖

My Happy Place

Fog on her glasses
From the still steaming tea
A book in her hand
As she casually reads.
A catch in her breath
As the climax grows near
She’s deaf to the world
The book is all she can hear.
She’s completely lost now,
Or perhaps she is found
In the strange paper world
That’s far from the ground!!

#keepreading ✌

Unknown….

I thought her eyes were a window,
In a room that housed her soul,
And the things I saw behind it,
Made me think she’d make me whole,
So I started throwing pebbles,
Begging her to let me in.
Until the signs of my affection
Appeared as bruises on her skin,
But what I’ve failed to notice,
Was that her curtains were drawn tight.
And the promises I had thought I had seen,
Were just tricks of light,
She had become just a reflection.
Of who I wished that she would be,
With a life to make mine better,
And perfect personality,
So when her personality shattered,
And I peered into her room,
I found a very different person.

Dream…

She felt him again in her sleep last night. Like always, her dreams are peripheral. An overheard conversation where his name is mentioned; a letter in her hand which she tries to read desperately before she wakes. A Styrofoam cup and half-read book on an empty table where she knew he was minutes before. It’s as though her dreams are a mirror of her waking world, like finding herself walking down the street where she could have sworn to catch a glimpse of him, only to look again and realize it wasn’t him after all !!

The little things…

At darjeeling, pulbazar

Waking up to the sound of your loved ones,
Putting on the comfiest clothes for the day,
The first sip of coffee in the morning,
The sound of birds chirping outside,
And the way the day starts over….no matter what happened yesterday.
It’s the little things that keep us going no matter how challenging the life is right now.
There’s so much to be thankful for, especially, the little things !!!!

|| YOURSELF ||

I hope you find your acceptance. The kind that rings through your bones, the kind that quiets the voice inside of you which tells you that you are not good enough or that you are falling behind. I hope you forgive yourself for the mistakes you have made, for the past you keep alive inside. I hope you learn to let go of the things that you had to do in order to heal or to grow or to survive. You’re doing your best. You are human. Please don’t forget that.

I hope that you find the kind of moments that take your breath away. The kind of moments that change you. I hope you travel to places that cleanse you. I hope you go to the concerts that ripples through you and makes you feel alive. I hope you that you may be able to converse with and connect to the silent unspoken bits of conversations that makes the stomach surge with the little butterflies of feelings. I hope you surround yourself with the kinds of friends that encourage your spontaneity, that they are always there for you. I hope you live truely and never hold back. I hope that you feel it all.

But most importantly, I hope that you find YOURSELF out there, figuring out your heart and your mind. I hope that you learn to be kind to YOURSELF that you may pick YOURSELF up from every mistake you make, that you may come to love YOURSELF before you love others and that you may emphatically embrace the journey that you are on!

Share your thoughts with me and till then keep reading ✌

How my life changed as an elementary school teacher!

As I mentioned earlier in my blog I started my new job and it’s been 1 year already. I still can’t believe and the last 1 year has really changed the course of my life! A lot of things have changed, my priorities have shifted (which is quite obvious for any job, I guess!)

And I want to share with you all how things have turned in a different way and I am sure a lot of people will relate to this:

Organized:

I think this is a common trait for all the teachers out there! Yes, I really have started picking up my life in a completely different and more organized way. The one week ahead lesson plan definitely makes me plan for one or even two weeks ahead and working accordingly really keeps me organized.

Out of the box way of thinking:

Frankly, it takes a lot to gather all the attention of my students, yes that’s a hard job trust me on this. So every day I have to think about how to get their full attention and obviously, that should be out of the box! Otherwise, they all tend to lose interest after some time and start gossiping among themselves!

Innovative:

As a student, I used to be inspired by those teachers who used to make our classes so interesting and innovative! So, I always try to make the lesson much more innovative and acceptable to my students, so that they can actually participate and learn in the course of the process. So every morning I have to prepare myself for the lesson I’m going to teach and in the most unique way.

Self-discipline: